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Make changes for the better...

The Couple Quiz
© 2010 Rekindle Counseling


  1. If my partner listened and responded to my concerns most of our problems would be resolved. 
  2. When I get angry I say things or do things that I regret later.
    You Said "True:"  Unfortunately mean words or actions predict that our relationship will end or be miserable.* We need to find ways to avoid saying or doing the mean things that everyone sometimes thinks or feels. When you are really upset, what can you do to calm yourself down before you speak? Most of us need at least 20 minutes to reset our bodies and minds if we’ve gotten really upset.
  3. My partner knows what I like about him/her and why. True False

 

*Gotmann, J. and Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, New York: Three Rivers Press. 

 

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