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The Couple Quiz
© 2010 Rekindle Counseling

1. If my partner listened and responded to my concerns most of our problems would be resolved. 
2. When I get angry I say things or do things that I regret later.
   
3. My partner knows what I like about him/her and why.
   You Said "False:" Often we stop giving each other compliments and positive feedback when we are upset. We get discouraged and loose the niceness and caring that we normally share. Unfortunately this makes it even less likely that our partner will listen to our concerns. Think about it, when someone doesn’t like you or is angry with you do you want to help them out, or even be with them?  Remember that we can care for people and treat them nicely and still ask them to listen to us and respond to our needs.           
4. We have had really bad fights after we’ve had a fun night out. True False

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